When others are quick to point out your faults and count them as numerous. When youve seen them swallow the same words theyve spoken countless times but refrain from pointing out the apparent hypocrisy in that routine. This poses a problem when said routine fills up the big bowl of patience to cause it to overflow and pop in a snap. Looking at the mirror works both ways. I see my faults, accept them as they are, figure out how to change them. While you look at yours, probably try to accept them and figure out how to correct them too? Just a thought. Sad even, that while youve worked to have a good memory, pointing them out to others with a not so good memory makes it fatally defective. Imagine them brushing it off by claiming to have forgotten about it or simply justify it by saying past is past.